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Bi, Weakly

I told all my friends that I’m gay—but now I’m interested in a woman. How do I tell them?

Feb. 15 2018 6:01 AMDear Prudence Uncensored: Who Moves the Moviegoer?
Feb. 14 2018 8:00 AMDear Prudence: The “Not Your Mom” EditionI work long hours, but my husband still wants me to take on all the household responsibilities. Help!
Feb. 12 2018 3:15 PMHelp! A Stranger at the Gym Smells Terrible. How Should I Confront Her?Read what Prudie had to say in Part 1 of this week’s live chat.
Feb. 8 2018 6:01 AMDear Prudence Uncensored: The Meter Reader–Phobe
Feb. 7 2018 12:00 PMHelp! My Friend Called Off the Wedding—So Why Is She Still Dating Her Terrible Ex-Fiancé?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Feb. 6 2018 8:00 AMHelp! My Ex-Wife’s an Anti-Vaxxer. Now She Won’t Let My Son Get a Flu Shot.Read what Prudie had to say in Part 2 of this week’s live chat.
Feb. 2 2018 4:16 PMDear Prudence Uncensored: The Embarrassing Subordinate
Jan. 31 2018 12:30 PMHelp! I Deserve a Raise and All I Got Is a Lousy Cost of Living Adjustment.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Jan. 30 2018 8:00 AMHelp! My Boyfriend’s 14-Year-Old Son Is a Nazi.Read what Prudie had to say in Part 2 of this week’s live chat.
Jan. 25 2018 10:26 AMUp in SmokeShould I let my pothead son burn through his college fund?
Jan. 24 2018 11:43 AMHelp! My Sister Broke Our Lawn Mower, Didn’t Replace It, and Wants to Borrow More Stuff.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Jan. 23 2018 8:00 AMBitter and TryingPrudie advises a letter writer who feels anger toward other parents after her own fertility struggles.
Jan. 18 2018 12:00 PMHelp! We Broke Up Because He Didn’t Want Kids. Now He Has Them—and I Don’t.Prudie answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Jan. 17 2018 12:00 PMDear Prudence: The “Ongoing Fling With a Famous Person” EditionCan I maintain a secret relationship with a famous man without feeling left out of his glamorous life? Help!
Jan. 16 2018 3:43 PMResponsible RelativesPrudie counsels a letter writer who’s trying to make amends after her son disrupted a family wedding.
Feb. 14 2018 12:30 PMHelp! Why Is My Friend Blaming Us for Her Bad Relationship? We Told Her to Dump Him.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Feb. 13 2018 8:00 AMHelp! I’m Not Ready to Let Grandma Babysit My Newborn.Read what Prudie had to say in Part 2 of this week’s live chat.
Feb. 12 2018 2:30 PMDear Prudence Live ChatFor February 20, 2018.
Feb. 8 2018 6:00 AMBlue PeriodWhen should I tell my new boyfriend about my depression?
Feb. 7 2018 8:00 AMDear Prudence: The “Not Unconditional Love” EditionThe only praise I get from my parents is about academic or professional achievements. Help!
Feb. 5 2018 3:18 PMHelp! Why Won’t My Daughter-in-Law Let Me in the Delivery Room?Read what Prudie had to say in Part 1 of this week’s live chat.
Feb. 1 2018 12:56 PMDying to Catch UpI’m worried about a long-lost friend. How can I reach out?
Jan. 31 2018 8:00 AMDear Prudence: The Live “Cruise Ship Romance” EditionI want my brother to come out to me, but I also want to respect his privacy. Help!
Jan. 29 2018 3:41 PMHelp Not WantedPrudie counsels a letter writer who’s embarrassed to use government-sponsored insurance.
Jan. 25 2018 10:26 AMDear Prudence Uncensored: The Lake House
Jan. 24 2018 8:00 AMDear Prudence: The “Tepidly Panromantic” EditionI’m irritated that everyone values sexual romance over friendship. Help!
Jan. 22 2018 2:39 PMGrieving From the OutsidePrudie counsels a letter writer who’s devastated by the loss of a therapist.
Jan. 18 2018 6:00 AMUniversity of LoveI’m crushing on my college teacher. Should I tell him?
Jan. 17 2018 7:35 AMPlayful ParentingPrudie advises a letter writer who knowingly plays pretend with a stuffed animal.
Jan. 10 2018 1:14 PMGiving It AwayMy volunteer gig has turned into an unpaid job.

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