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My wife doesn’t speak English, and I’m sick of translating. Can I divorce her?

Dec. 7 2016 10:21 PMHeart on FireMy friend’s baby died, and now she wants to burn the cot she borrowed.
Dec. 6 2016 9:40 AMThe Other LifePrudie advises a letter writer whose dying grandmother once loved another woman.
Dec. 5 2016 4:12 PMHelp! I Made a Spectacularly Unsmooth Move on My Co-Worker.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Nov. 30 2016 7:19 AMDear Prudence: The “Anger Management” EditionI secretly had a child with my pastor and gave her up for adoption. Do I tell her his name and ruin his life?
Nov. 28 2016 3:42 PMShe’ll Come AroundPrudie advises a gay woman whose straight guy friend keeps bringing up “date ideas.”
Nov. 24 2016 6:00 AMPetting SoundsMy brother-in-law tried to eavesdrop on us having sex.
Nov. 22 2016 9:08 AMI Before WePrudie advises a letter writer whose sister’s refusal to spell correctly is having deleterious family effects.
Nov. 21 2016 4:35 PMHelp! My Mom Turns Pleasant Holidays Into Emotionally Charged Sympathy Sessions.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Nov. 16 2016 7:01 AMDear Prudence: The “Either/Or” EditionBinary choices, a Prudie impostor, and the limits of civility after Trump.
Nov. 14 2016 3:23 PMEvil JoyPrudie counsels a woman who can’t help but feel happy that her cheating ex and his mistress got in a car accident.
Nov. 10 2016 9:38 AMYou Know You Want OneMy sister-in-law keeps lecturing us on fertility treatments.
Nov. 8 2016 9:45 AMGuy and DollsPrudie counsels a man who’d rather hang out with the women at work.
Nov. 7 2016 4:00 PMHelp! My Adult Stepdaughter Frightens My Kids.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Nov. 2 2016 7:00 AMDear Prudence: The “Whaaaattt?!?” EditionIt turns out my friends are really racist.
Oct. 31 2016 3:38 PMThat’s No EmojiPrudie advises a man whose aunt saw a photo of genitalia on his phone and won’t let it go.
Dec. 6 2016 10:21 AMDear Prudence Live ChatFor Dec. 12, 2016.
Dec. 5 2016 4:17 PMNot Ready for My Close-UpPrudie counsels an artist who can’t shake off scathing blog reviews.
Dec. 1 2016 6:00 AMOnce and Future FlameHow do I tell my ex and kids I want to be with the woman I had an affair with?
Nov. 29 2016 9:11 AMBreaking PointPrudie counsels a woman suffering through her boyfriend’s fetish for high heels.
Nov. 28 2016 3:18 PMHelp! I Got Pregnant. Then My Lying Sister Claimed She Was Too.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Nov. 23 2016 10:13 AMDear Prudence: The “Missing the Point” EditionPrudie stages an intervention with a woman who can’t quite admit that she’s a stalker.
Nov. 21 2016 4:36 PMInsult to InjuryPrudie counsels a woman whose father called her an “idiot” for not reporting her rape at the time.
Nov. 17 2016 6:00 AMI Don’t Wanna Sex You UpI’m in danger of losing my asexuality—and everything good about me.
Nov. 15 2016 10:16 AMJust Being HonestPrudie advises a letter writer whose wife is upset at being compared unfavorably to previous exes.
Nov. 14 2016 3:22 PMHelp! I Think My Husband’s Poor Judgment Put Our Kids in Danger. Am I Overreacting?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Nov. 9 2016 5:23 PMDear Prudence: The “How Long?” EditionMy fiancée’s mother is sick. Does that mean she has to live with us forever?
Nov. 7 2016 4:01 PMLimited-Time OfferPrudie advises a woman not ready for kids, but whose boyfriend’s frozen sperm will expire soon.
Nov. 3 2016 6:00 AMFatal AttractionA guy I dated says I have to be with him—because he’s dying.
Nov. 1 2016 9:52 AMFabric of His LifePrudie counsels a woman wondering whether her boyfriend’s lingerie collection hints at something more.
Oct. 31 2016 3:37 PMHelp! My Husband’s New Co-Worker Is His Old Mistress.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.

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