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More Than a Hashtag

Prudie advises a letter writer who doesn’t want to “come out” as a survivor via social media.

Oct. 16 2017 3:03 PMParty BouncerPrudie counsels a letter writer who wants to keep children out while the adults are drinking.
Oct. 12 2017 6:00 AMDouble TroubleI’m kind of in love with both of my roommates.
Oct. 11 2017 8:00 AMHead-Turning LiePrudie advises a letter writer who keeps lying to a girlfriend about being attracted to her.
Oct. 5 2017 6:00 AMDWB 101I’m worried my teenage daughter’s boyfriend will get pulled over for driving while black.
Oct. 4 2017 8:00 AMDear Prudence: The “Good Grief” EditionA stranger got mad at me for not letting her child use my iPad. Help!
Oct. 2 2017 4:12 PMTwofold HeartachePrudie counsels a letter writer who can’t get past a crush on her twin sister’s girlfriend.
Sept. 28 2017 6:00 AMBad SeedMy daughter calls my wife and her kids racist names. I still love her, but I’m at the end of my rope.
Sept. 27 2017 8:00 AMDear Prudence: The “Hot Mess” EditionMy wife came out after four years of marriage. How do I let go of the life I imagined for us?
Sept. 25 2017 4:43 PMMiddle Ground ShakedownPrudie counsels a letter writer whose husband thinks his wife-beating best friend deserves their support and forgiveness.
Sept. 20 2017 12:30 PMHelp! My Fiancé Wants to Wear a Kilt to Our Wedding.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Sept. 19 2017 8:32 AMPhallic FearsPrudie advises a woman who was mortified to learn the true reason why her fiancé doesn’t want to have a son.
Sept. 14 2017 6:00 AMUnprofessional DistanceMy colleague keeps asking me out, and I keep telling him no. How do I get this creep to leave me alone?
Sept. 13 2017 8:00 AMDear Prudence: The “Rumpelstiltskin” EditionHow do I get my supervisor to stop threatening to take my baby? Help!
Sept. 11 2017 3:43 PMHer Father’s PastPrudie advises a mother who survived an abusive relationship on how to educate her daughter about domestic violence.
Sept. 7 2017 6:00 AMAn Affair to RememberMy husband was married when we met—and I’m still ashamed.
Oct. 13 2017 8:02 AMHelp! My Emotionally Draining Friends Turn Every Get-Together Into a Therapy Session.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Oct. 11 2017 12:00 PMDear Prudence: The “On the Nose” EditionMy adult friend carries a doll with her and pretends it’s real. Help!
Oct. 10 2017 2:45 PMSimplex TransmissionPrudie counsels a letter writer who isn’t sure when is the right time to disclose an STD to a prospective romantic partner.
Oct. 4 2017 12:30 PMHelp! My Mom Won’t Let My Boyfriend Sleep in My Room When We Visit.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Oct. 3 2017 8:13 AMWater Cooler CounselPrudie advises a letter writer who wants to help a young, struggling co-worker make an informed choice about a pregancy.
Sept. 29 2017 1:00 PMThe “Sunk Costs” TranscriptRead what Prudie and Lindy West had to say about period shaming, defining rape, and an interminable engagement.
Sept. 27 2017 1:06 PMHelp! I Want to Ask My Stepdad to Adopt Me, but I’m Worried He’ll Say No.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Sept. 26 2017 7:42 AMAbrupt TransitionPrudie advises a letter writer whose transgender partner doesn’t seem like “a real trans case.”
Sept. 21 2017 6:00 AMBehind Her BackMy wife won’t let me indulge my fantasies. Can I look elsewhere?
Sept. 20 2017 8:00 AMDear Prudence: The “Sunk Cost” EditionEvery time our wedding date approaches, my fiancé finds a way to put it off. Help!
Sept. 18 2017 3:14 PMMargaritaville or Bust?Prudie counsels a single mom who is trying to outrun a midlife crisis.
Sept. 13 2017 12:50 PMHelp! Why Do Strangers on the Bus Insist on Making Small Talk?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Sept. 12 2017 8:19 AMTaboo Says WhoPrudie counsels a distantly related couple who resent having to justify or explain their consanguineous relationship.
Sept. 8 2017 12:53 PMHelp! I’m Allowed to Feel Happy When Bad Things Happen to My Ex, Right?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Sept. 6 2017 11:00 AMDear Prudence: The “Checking In” EditionMy husband obsessively tags people on social media—often against their will, and even after he inadvertently exposed a friend’s affair.

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